Wow, the predictions rolled in about the family photo taken in front of the enormous tipped boulder (in my last post.) Thanks to Molly, Amy, Suong, Michele (no cheating on Google!), and Katie for some good guesses! But I loved the prediction from Liz Warmbier’s 1st period class at Dayton Junior High: They predicted it was in India and where the film Jurassic Park was filmed. They also questioned if it was volcanic. In fact we are standing in front of Krishna’s Ball in Mamallapuram, that at one time seven elephants tried to push over and couldn’t succeed.
On our outrageous drive from Chennai to Pondicherry, we had to stop at Mamallapuram, a famous sandy stretch of land home to grandiose ancient temples. Mamallapuram sits about midway between the 200 km between Chennai and Pondicherry and we needed to get off that ride and get our wits back.
The minute we drove into the village, a guide hopped in the car next to me in the backseat. Our driver’s body language indicated he didn’t think this was a good idea, but the guide seemed knowledgeable and friendly, and what did we know? That must be how they do it here. Not too many shockers on our 4th day in India; by now we were getting seasoned.
Mamallapuram boasts eloquent remains of monolithic temples and shrines from the 7th century. You read that right – 7th, not 17th century! Monolithic, I learned, means carved from one stone. The photos don’t adequately show the intricacies of these colossal hand-carved structures. Since they were never completely finished (not that I could tell) or consecrated, no worship is carried out there. Our guide wore out his welcome in the first 15 minutes with his over the top explanations and insistence that he take photos. When we learned how much he wanted to charge for a one hour tour, we begged off and he took our offer of 200 rupees. Then we explored the five monoliths on our own, seeking the shade as often as possible. Since the temples are unoccupied and free of the bustling activity of a place of worship, they conveyed a sense of serenity and agelessness.
We also searched for the illustrious shore temple, the most eminent temple in Mamallapuram. After asking for directions and several dead-ends, we wished we hadn’t fire our guide. The monkeys offered an unexpected sideshow during our quest.
Finally we learned the shore temple was actually a 15 minute drive away, off the main highway. Clutch decision time: do we continue rummaging around in our precariously overheated state (always a risky move with the kids), and negotiate a new price with our driver or call it a day (in reality 1 ½ hours) and push on to Pondicherry, where we knew a pool was waiting? The parents out there can probably guess which path we took! At the time, it was the best decision, but the independent traveler in me lamented that we didn’t go for it when we were so close.
As you know from the last post, this drive was torturous and when we finally found Mango Hill Hotel, relief washed over us. Tucked away from the main road (we missed the sign) and sandwiched between indigent villages, this French owned inn served as an oasis! I fell in love with the charming brick and white exterior and open air tiled interior.
The art deco vibe was enhanced with French film noir framed posters and classic black and white Hollywood photos. Fred Astaire beamed a smile at us as we opened the door to our room. Kudos to Jason, who found the place online and took care of making our reservation in advance!
Our huge room boasted a spacious balcony, air conditioning, lime green walls and rich red accents, and a decadent gold ceiling with recessed lighting around the perimeter. The kids spied a tiny lizard slithering up the wall one morning!
The gorgeous, overflow pool welcomed our weary, sweaty souls and became a haven the next couple days. In the center of the rectangular pool rose a cashew tree “island” that the kids immediately named Gilligan’s Island. It became the favorite destination, as it had an underwater bench to rest on and inhale the sweet scent of the cashew blossoms (reminded me of orange trees that grew in my grandparents’ Arizona backyard.)
We enjoyed some great French and Indian food at Mango Hill, as they make their own bread, grow their own fruit and vegetables (we saw the banana trees beyond the pool), and make their own ham and cheese on site. The menu had basics like spaghetti Bolognese and French fries for the kids and the continental breakfasts (fresh squeezed o.j. and mango juice!) appealed to all of us.
On our first night two other couples, Marshall and Ellen (we traveled with them in Ghana), and Bob and Melody, joined us at Mango Hill, which was really fun. Thank goodness for the portable DVD player, so we could enjoy some adult conversation while the kids watched movies. Marshall, Ellen, Bob and Melody had just spent the day in Pondicherry so they gave us all kinds of advice for the next day, which we followed to a tee. We even hired their driver!
The next morning Marshall, Ellen and I went for a run. Marshall and Jason had already ventured out once in Chennai. India is probably the least runner-friendly country we’ve encountered. As we jogged down the road right outside Mango Hill, it reeked of what I thought was dog poop. No wonder – there were piles and piles littered alongside the road. I commented on the stench and Ellen corrected me as to the origin of the poop, and it wasn’t from an animal. Ugh! The run continued its unpleasantness as we found the main road, and shimmied along a nonexistent shoulder. Luckily, the traffic wasn’t as crazy at 6:30 in the morning. Soon we peeled off and jogged through a sleepy little village, searching for beach access. Our hope for a nice jog on the beach didn’t pan out. Garbage and hundreds of dead fish littered the surf and we really had to watch our step. Thirty minutes later, we returned to Mango Hill, out of breath and somewhat speechless. Nonetheless, we accomplished our goal of running in India!
By now we’d learned to tackle our days in India in small doses, so our itinerary for Pondicherry followed suit. Armed with Marshall’s recommendations (Ashram, temple, park, Pizza Hut), our driver helped us execute the next 4 ½ hours. He didn’t understand much English, and his bobble looked like he shook his head no, but it really meant yes (a typical Indian mannerism.)
Pondicherry retains its French colonial architecture with cobbled streets, shuttered windows, and pastel colorwashed buildings. The former capital of French India, it’s an eccentric blend of charm and chaos. We focused our limited time in the French quarter near the beach. Our driver delivered us door to door at the Aurobindo Ashram and suggested (even though he couldn’t articulate it in English, we got the jist) we leave our shoes in the car, since all visitors to ashrams and temples must remove their shoes.
My knowledge of ashrams stems from what I read in Eat, Pray, Love: a quiet and peaceful retreat where spiritual and yogic seekers go to meditate and be closer to their guru. Nobody’s allowed to take photographs or talk in the ashram. We essentially walked through a beautiful, reverent courtyard full of fresh flowers and lots of people praying and meditating in silence. The “Mother’s” room was full of photographs of her and books she’s written.
We walked down the street to the Hindu temple (yep, we all walked barefoot on a street in India, but Pondicherry was cleaner than Chennai!) In this temple we were allowed inside, but the best attraction stood outside. An elephant, controlled by an attendant with a stick, positioned himself as a guard next to the temple’s entrance. Any one of us could have taken a turn plunked down on the elephant’s back (I think) but we were content to observe the scene.
Our driver must have been keeping a close eye because he met us as we strolled up the street before we could wonder where to look for him. Next stop was a picturesque, leafy park with play equipment, benches, and dazzling flowers in bloom. Just about every bench had someone reclined on it and snoozing away.
From the park we walked to the beach to the towering Gandhi statue. On our way back we observed a construction crew pouring concrete. Look closely at the photos – what a sight!
For lunch I’d been outvoted (again) in favor of Pizza Hut. Pondicherry’s Pizza Hut soars above American Pizza Huts in terms of atmosphere, menu selection, and service – and the pizza tasted familiar. That lunch stop made the kids exultant and definitely helped power them through the rest of the afternoon.
For our last destination, we aimed to visit Auroville, a new age-y commune referred to as the “City of Dawn.” Established in the late 1960’s, it’s the legacy of the Mother (from the Arobindo Ashram that we just visited.) After watching a short video and perusing the visitor’s center, we learned this: “Auroville belongs to nobody in particular. Auroville belongs to humanity as a whole. But to live in Auroville, one must be the willing servitor of the Divine Consciousness….(The Program is based on) research through experience of the supreme truth of a life divine, but no religions.” Got it?
We were lucky enough to hit Auroville on the right day during the right time to get free tickets to view the “Matrimandir”, a pavilion that translates to “Mother’s Shrine.” Before locating the trail we meandered through an outdoor exhibit that showcased Auroville’s commitment to conservation, recycling, and solar energy (which didn’t seem too cutting edge to us as native Oregonians!)
We then walked for about 25 minutes down a tranquil path shadowed by banyan trees. These peculiar trees produce aerial roots which grow down from the branches and take root to form new trunks.
Along the way, Auroville residents coasted by on bikes or meditated off the path. Once we reached the Park of Unity where we could view the Matrimandir, scents plumeria and hibiscus floated over us. What do you think of this Matrimandir? The construction on it began the year I was born and finished more than 20 years later. Only Auroville residents are allowed inside.
We liked our driver so much we hired him to take us back to Chennai the following morning. But he must have gotten a better job, because his business partner showed up in an Ambassador. Ambassadors were manufactured by the masses in the 1940’s and 50’s and used to be the standard family sedan in India. As we tumbled into the backseat and didn’t find any seatbelts, those Oh, No!!! thoughts surged through me. I couldn’t take a repeat drive of two days earlier. Except for the driver not knowing where the harbor was once we arrived in Chennai, we survived just fine. The air conditioning worked great and no one threw up. All’s well that ends well.
I wish I could accurately articulate our India experience…if I keep trying, my posts will result in a book! My impressions overall topped out positive, especially of the people. They’re so intelligent, hearty, and resilient. It’s incomprehensible to me how they can stand living with such filth and trash (everyone looks clean and presentable for the most part.) Indians value education, especially college. There are four medical schools in Chennai alone! A big billboard read “Education is another word for happiness.” The middle class (mostly in the cities) has grown exponentially the past 20 years due to the expanding economy (in 1991 import trade barriers were removed, moving them into the free market.) More than a million Indians are millionaires, but many live on less than $2 a day. It’s estimated that a quarter of India’s population lives below the poverty line. Compare this statistic to the 93% who lived in destitute poverty in 1985!
Make no mistake, this is a dynamic country that will continue to evolve and progress, but still hold on to its traditions and values that characterize its identity. India: intense, inexplicable, incredible!
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